“Tharkii” is a word which means lascivious or dirty suggestive, divert or lewd.
“Tarrhu” in sindhi and urdu, which means (A boy who looks for girls). It is typically used to address a person who constantly engaged in birdwatching (watching girls), who has girls on his mind for 24×7. A guy who likes to flirt with girls, some people say, Tharkii is someone who is extremely talented in hitting on girls.
Last night when I was having a little research about the stuff to finalize this blog, I was reading some comments about tharkii people, there was a comment by an Indian girl (Ritika Nema) according to her, “Tharkii is the one who is characterless or who has no character of his own.”
Oh really? No character of his own, LOLzZ. HaHa! I think this mighty girl is pretty much furious to poor-hearted tharkiis.
Let’s have a journey inside and deeper!
I know you are tired of people saying, “hi there, you are cute, I like your smile, I like your eyes, Blah Blah….” I can imagine how irritating it can be when someone invisible jumps up and says, “Do you wanna be my friend or can I be your friend” and you be like, “Do I know you?” Hence whenever I acclimated, I definitely didn’t done same thing neither I ask any of the girl to be my friend. All I did each time was just start a conversation and it developed my friendship on it’s on.
So that’s how they talk! yes I’m talking about the poor-souls and underrated commonly known as tharkiis. Sometimes it gives a funny feeling saying that word.
According to my experiences, conversations and meetings with girls, I came to know this very interesting fact that they constantly face such people in life. No matter how a girl looks like or how much sensible the girl is, tharkii people won’t stop hitting on them.
Tharakpan is just an immaturity of poor-souls nothing more than that. If I say, I suffered that bug of tharakpan in my head it will not be wrong, HaHa!
Now the question arises, can the tharakpan be controlled or it is la-ilaj (untreatable)? Last night when I was having a little chat with my kinni chokri, I reveal to her that “I’m writing a blog concerning Tharakpan,Tharkii people, and my adventures and experience about it and one important thing, how I experienced my own life in tharakpan?” after listening to me carefully she was like, “Bae ap abhi bhi tharkii hi hain, tharakpan ka koi ilaj nahi wo la-ilaj hoti hai.” At first I was a lil bit speechless, HaHa! But somehow I spoke up for my rights lol. According to my practical knowledge the tharakpan is a disease, in general it is a curable disease if you find out your true soulmate.
Poor-souls tharkii people are caused by the situation of their complex, obsession and phobia of not getting a girlfriend.
The thing about tharkii people is their confidence, statistically proving the confidence! A tharkii won’t take more than 3 minutes to ask for a girl’s phone number in the first chat.
I do not feel any kind of shame to admit that I was also a tharkii boy once in my life! I was one of them who use to text again and again to the same girl for their attention, oh really! will she become attentive to you? why bro? does she know you?
These questions use to appear in my mind now whenever I get lost in my thoughts. How foolish I was! but sometimes those kind of things can teach us lessons that we did not think we need to know. I know it sounds strange but this is the truth.
“Tell me and I forget, teach me and I will remember. Involve me and I learn.” – Benjamin Franklin
Whatever you want to do for enjoyment you have to do, but for God’s sake do not be the playboy with a girl’s life, do not destroy any of the girl’s trust over you and all the boys indeed.
In my life I met with so many girls, many of them do not trust boys. In their opinion all the boys use to be playboys. It means either they experienced the loss of their trust or they do not know that five fingers are not equal. I am not trying to say that I’m the guy who never broke someone’s faith in me. But it is just a kind of flow. To build up your trust over someone you have to break an other one’s. But the real thing is when someone give you the taste of your own medicine. Yes indeed you will be completely destroyed.
If you look close enough as I did that day when I met one of my best girl-friend. I can tell she had her broken heart. There was something in, the way she was smiling. The dull glow and glimmer of her eyes that tells me someone or something has smashed her into million tiny pieces.
Unfortunately, we have all been either the recipient or sender of such unoriginal, trite and potentially terrible flirtations messages. Sometimes you actually hear yourself saying the line, and then immediately filled with regrets.
Collectively, through the most frequently noted motive is relational, suggestive that flirting messages are fundamentally driven by the desire to build up a relationship. It is not always about sex.